Love is beautiful and it is something we have no control of, it just so happened how we end up falling out of love is something I’m yet to fully understand.
Sometimes I know we have this wish like if is possible we get to choose the person we get to fall in love with then everything maybe different then we can save ourselves from getting hurt but is that possible? NO, heartbreak is “irrefutable “ in a relationship it’s part of the moving forward as crazy as it may sound it’s part of life. Any relationship without hurts, heartbreak, quarrel has no future.
You get hurt to know better, you get hurt to learn, you get hurt to choose better, you get to understand more. You know at first I was thinking that I can choose the person I get to fall inlove with, i already have my “SPEC” my idea man of course the type of man I’m into but I understand more when I started dating I didn’t date my “SPEC” my first boyfriend was nothing close to the type of guys I like, it was nothing close to my choice of guys, he was totally the opposite. That what love does, love make everything perfect to you. It was then I finally understood. It’s something i have no control of’.
Someone commented in my first article and he/she said love makes you fall in love with someone that’s in love with someone else falling in love with someone it’s easy, you naturally being sweet, caring, nice at the first stage of your relationship is normal but after you guys pass that stage, then true feelings start to show and you need understand something just because you stay inlove with someone it doesn’t mean that person feels the same way for you, your love for someone doesn’t condemn the person to feel the same way about you. the reason we’re angry with them is because he or she were not honest about their feelings making us look stupid at the very end.
Love is sweet, it is more sweeter when that person feels the same way and stay feeling the same way. Do you know what that means’? It means you guys are unstoppable, yeah it’s not gonna be easy but you guys are gonna overcome it all, it is one thing to love someone, its another thing to stay loving that person. I’m gonna end here guys till my next article.